tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-59742928962070665142024-03-13T22:52:23.794-05:00Right Hand ManifestoWorld's Best Dating and Relationship Advice for Men by MenRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.comBlogger67125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-13819940032652639982012-07-11T12:50:00.002-05:002012-07-11T12:50:46.493-05:00Confidence is key
Confidence.
You may not be 100% confident in every area of your life. Who is? Play to your strengths. We have all seen the dude with women that seemed to be out of his league. How did that dude get that chick??? He played to his strength.
Looks, charm, physique, conversation, humor, intelligence, dance skills.
Any one of these can open the door to interactionsRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-78733938167446405582011-07-25T11:01:00.012-05:002012-07-11T12:57:40.892-05:00Back in Black
Here we go folks...I am back.
Seems like past couple years I had written/said much of what I wanted to communicate. Writing a weekly/bi-weekly blog and keeping the content fresh is easier said than done. But, at the urging of more than a few people, I decided to start writing again.
I still encourage you to go back and read again my previous posts. Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-68460505542766673252010-05-07T13:30:00.004-05:002010-05-07T13:33:22.169-05:00Everybody needs a mentor...
Whether it's throwing a baseball, swinging a golf club, or making a sales presentation... we all learned it from somebody. The problem is that your Average Frustrated Guy never had a father, big brother, or buddy (who was good with women) teach him what to say and how to act around women.
If you are not good with women, you WILL have to learn "how-to-do-it" fromRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-85547237882291170862010-04-23T11:14:00.003-05:002010-04-23T11:18:07.181-05:00Positive and Realisitc
We all know that tough life experiences can make us bitter or better. I've had my share of mistakes with women and been burned, but I also recognize the great things about a woman that I enjoy:
soft skin
pretty eyes
nice legs
warm breasts
a woman's intuition
her nurturing nature
soft voice
the touch of her hand
beautiful hair
her want for a strong man
the way her body Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-68331806705904085622010-02-11T12:04:00.004-05:002010-02-11T12:09:21.454-05:00Tell me we're not living in a feminized culture...
What a great ad from the past....
Blow in her face and she'll follow you anywhere. As a friend of mine says, that's your lock-in prop. You might want to let her know it's coming...
RHMRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-39243961818847139142010-02-01T12:20:00.003-05:002010-02-02T10:08:12.847-05:00Super secret formula?
There is no super secret formula for seduction.
Find the women who are attracted to you and escalate the physical.
In case you missed this day in school: Women are generally attracted to the guys they find good-looking and cool. There are women who run the gamut from homely to hot, so there are specific women who find YOU attractive. A few women find Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-39432564369056190772010-01-14T14:58:00.002-05:002010-01-14T15:02:35.319-05:00Better options with better women
Here's a tip for your game in 2010 (bet you already know this):
Physical and mental self improvement leads to
healthier self-esteem, which leads to
comfortable talking to women, which leads to
more easily recognize her attraction toward you, which leads to
confident physical escalation, which leads to
more sex, which leads to
less intimidated / more comfortable Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-52108164436123917282009-12-17T11:40:00.001-05:002009-12-17T11:41:15.555-05:00Random but important
Couple random thoughts I'd like to share...
A fool and his money are soon parted.
Spending money on a woman is a complete non-necessity. It probably hurts your chances of getting laid. The only thing that matters is your confident response of acting on the attraction you recognize she has towards you. Most guys puss out when the chick is Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-84329080803060555642009-10-23T10:46:00.011-05:002009-10-23T11:52:07.604-05:00Be a triple threat...
Threat one: Lifestyle
Your lifestyle has so much to do with who will be attracted to you. If you are a fun, social, outgoing guy with good people skills you will attract fun, social women who like to go out. Push yourself to become more friendly cool (not clingy creepy) and draw more folks into your sphere of influence.
What can you do today to expand your social circle and Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-12901339832194106082009-10-19T12:51:00.012-05:002009-10-20T10:03:48.323-05:00Missing the obvious...
On a recent night out, two women in proximity at the bar interrupted my buddy and I after standing next to us for ten minutes. One asked me, "Have you met my friend?" and proceeded with the introductions. What do you think that means? Duh. The friend was attracted to me and her "wingwoman" made the approach.
Does that happen every time? Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-55315328658388494212009-10-13T11:31:00.011-05:002009-10-19T13:55:26.740-05:00Finding the proper balance
When I was young, dumb, and full of you-know-what... I was in a co-dependent relationship with a woman. This was a direct result of not possessing the proper social skills and confidence to give me better choices with women. Have you ever felt like you settled for less than you deserved with a woman?
I first read Stephen Covey's bestseller "The Seven Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-70438136967105783612009-10-06T15:02:00.011-05:002009-10-07T10:36:58.100-05:00What is your goal with women?
Men generally seek one of two goals in their pursuit of women:
1) Sex
2) Relationship
Number one is obvious and quite funny that women act so offended by it. We men are driven by the wonderful desire to conquer... economically, tribally, and sexually. If you only want sex from her, then put the kibosh on relationship behaviors. Be straightforward and candid while escalating, Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-45059755296225629982009-09-28T13:45:00.018-05:002009-09-29T12:13:29.168-05:00Online dating trends...
Finding passion online is now culturally acceptable. Some interesting numbers from the world of online dating:
According to Hitwise, there are about 1,400 online dating sites in North America.
Roughly 40 million American singles use online dating and social networking sites to meet new people.
It is predicted that Americans will spend $1.7 billion on dating services inRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-16772094268074104562009-09-25T12:21:00.013-05:002009-09-27T18:53:58.254-05:00Bad advice from a pretty source...
I never took this too seriously in my younger years, because I thought women were a good source of advice about women. I can't stress this enough: men need advice from MEN about dating and relationships. Most western women (U.S. and western Europe) and male "experts" will give you advice from a post 1960's, feminist perspective.
Yes, that little Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-2828541250900675062009-09-17T12:31:00.008-05:002009-09-17T12:48:42.942-05:00Truth or hype?
So many dating and lifestyle coaches blast you with the must-have dvd, cd, podcast, groundbreaking material... I get the emails of misleading or exaggerated claims. So many lately, that my head is spinning. I rank them right up there with penis enlargement ads.
They taunt you with new information you must buy to stay relevant. They often misread cause and Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-31651258084753555672009-09-15T11:01:00.016-05:002009-09-15T23:15:08.473-05:00Don't swoon
Swoon is a term used to express happiness or excitement, to be overwhelmed by joy or emotion toward something or someone.
My good friend texts me yesterday... "I am at Barnes and Noble witnessing what apparently is an internet date." He gives me a great play-by-play as he observes their interaction.
"The guy actually brought a rose!"
"His cologne is awfully Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-12809021620778282862009-09-10T11:35:00.020-05:002009-09-15T12:38:54.644-05:00Strengthen your frame
A frame is a structural system that supports other components.
Your mental/emotional/psychological frame supports all your social interaction skills. If you have a strong frame you will have strong interactions. Strengthen your frame and your skills will follow. Strengthen your frame and others will be attracted to you.
What can you do to strengthen your frame?
Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-67965056735834562032009-09-03T13:22:00.005-05:002009-09-15T23:14:27.376-05:00How will you spend it?
Finding sex versus being social is the same difference as spending versus investing money.
Let’s look at money for a minute… Mmmm… money. Spending money provides immediate gratification; it feels good to buy something. You finally fulfill the want or longing that has been in your gut. The desire is quenched.
Let’s go shopping. Let’s spend some money and get some Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-25778724576560842032009-09-03T09:51:00.003-05:002009-09-03T10:18:02.124-05:00Waking up from a dream...Well, I don't know if it was a good one or a bad dream... but after a sabbatical from blogging, I may have found my voice again.I'll be regularly recording my ruminations about men and women. I was inspired by the recent news of several engagements for marriage by people I know. Yikes, are they succumbing to social pressure or are they really ready for it?Wow, so much work and so little time...Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-30942081585159338212008-08-20T10:51:00.010-05:002009-09-27T23:32:00.636-05:00Another slice of rejection, anyone?
Fear of rejection is bad because of the REJECTION. No one likes it.
Unfortunately, many guys think they need to develop thick skin. It's counter-productive to act outlandish or corner a woman until the point she rejects you. It's a fruitless activity that makes you think you are actually strengthening your skills. Think of rejection more as a virus that eats away at your inside instead Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-43669341839770589442008-08-10T11:37:00.007-05:002008-08-10T23:18:11.249-05:00Keep them coming backWomen like to return regularly to my house. I don’t have a big place, a hot tub, a pool or a plasma TV. But I make it a cool place to hang… it’s simple and any guy can do it.CleanEspecially the kitchen sink, kitchen floor, bathroom sinks, tub & toilets.Bleach is effective, inexpensive, and smells clean. Clean sends a good message.I don’t leave unfolded laundry in plain site.Clean sheets Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-75084402622028791302008-08-04T15:00:00.013-05:002009-09-03T11:21:59.413-05:00When scarcity is a good thing
The law of supply and demand point out that scarcity can raise demand. Gold, oil, diamonds... If you make your self completely available to a woman, she can have you anytime SHE wants. How many times has a woman not been available when you had a free evening?
Make yourself scarce to the girl. They call it playing hard to get. Too many guys jump at the chance to go on a Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-86994931905863237632008-07-26T11:49:00.013-05:002008-12-09T12:58:53.351-05:00The simple key to abundance...If you talk to enough women, you will find the ones attracted to you.For you see, the ones attracted to you want to spend time with you. They make it easy. Many guys experience frustration because the object of their attention won’t reciprocate.She doesn’t return may callsShe doesn’t return my texts in a timely mannerShe is always too busy to get togetherWhat if you didn’t worry about any one Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-37647892433430506842008-06-05T16:08:00.006-05:002008-12-09T12:58:53.498-05:00Please and thank you… Do you remember when Barney the Purple Dinosaur told you (or your kids) that those were the magic words? Well, ole Barney was right in teaching those manners to 5 years olds. However, those phrases are part of social transactions between people in our society. These words are simple building blocks of social calibration. Your whole outlook on life and influence on people can change byRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-89952413476326088212008-05-30T13:10:00.016-05:002008-12-09T12:58:53.652-05:00I want something from you… Once upon a time in America, when someone came home from work, the store, or from picking the kids up from school… they parked (the one car the family owned) in their driveway or carport. Got out of the car and said hello and had a brief conversation with their neighbors and then went inside. If the phone rang, they answered it, eager to speak with the caller. People belonged to civic Right Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.com1