tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-59742928962070665142012-01-06T06:50:51.981-05:00World's Best Dating and Relationship Advice for Men by MenRight Hand Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16344530761917585380noreply@blogger.comBlogger661100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5974292896207066514.post-78733938167446405582011-07-25T11:01:00.012-05:002011-07-26T09:25:45.546-05:00

Here we go folks...I am back. Seems like past couple years I had written/said much of what I wanted to communicate.  Writing a weekly/bi-weekly blog and keeping the content fresh is easier said than done.  But, at the urging of more than a few people, I decided to start writing again. I still encourage you to go back and read again my previous posts.  The ideas are still

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Whether it's throwing a baseball, swinging a golf club, or making a sales presentation... we all  learned it from somebody.  The problem is that your Average Frustrated Guy never had a father, big brother, or buddy (who was good with women) teach him what to say and how to act around women. If you are not good with women, you WILL have to learn "how-to-do-it" from someone.

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We all know that tough life experiences can make us bitter or better.  I've had my share of mistakes with women and been burned, but I also recognize the great things about a woman that I enjoy: soft skin pretty eyes nice legs warm breasts a woman's intuition her nurturing nature soft voice the touch of her hand beautiful hair her want for a strong man the way her body moves

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What a great ad from the past.... Blow in her face and she'll follow you anywhere.  As a friend of mine says, that's your lock-in prop.  You might want to let her know it's coming... RHM

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There is no super secret formula for seduction. Find the women who are attracted to you and escalate the physical.  In case you missed this day in school:  Women are generally attracted to the guys they find good-looking and cool.  There are women who run the gamut from homely to hot, so there are specific women who find YOU attractive.  A few women find Woody Allen attractive

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Here's a tip for your game in 2010 (bet you already know this): Physical and mental self improvement leads to healthier self-esteem, which leads to comfortable talking to women, which leads to more easily recognize her attraction toward you, which leads to confident physical escalation, which leads to more sex, which leads to less intimidated / more comfortable

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Couple random thoughts I'd like to share... A fool and his money are soon parted.  Spending money on a  woman is a complete non-necessity.  It probably hurts your chances of getting laid. The only thing that matters is your confident response of acting on the attraction you recognize she has towards you.  Most guys puss out when the chick  is really hot and then break

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Threat one: Lifestyle Your lifestyle has so much to do with who will be attracted to you. If you are a fun, social, outgoing guy with good people skills you will attract fun, social women who like to go out. Push yourself to become more friendly cool (not clingy creepy) and draw more folks into your sphere of influence. What can you do today to expand your social circle and

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On a recent night out,  two women in proximity at the bar interrupted my buddy and I after standing next to us for ten minutes.  One asked me, "Have you met my friend?"  and proceeded with the introductions.  What do you think that means?  Duh.  The friend was attracted to me and her "wingwoman" made the approach. Does that happen every time?  No, but as you progress in your

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When I was young, dumb, and full of you-know-what...  I was in a co-dependent relationship with a woman.  This was a direct result of not possessing the proper social skills and confidence to give me better choices with women.  Have you ever felt like you settled for less than you deserved with a woman? I first read Stephen Covey's bestseller "The Seven Habits of Highly

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Men generally seek one of two goals in their pursuit of women: 1) Sex 2) Relationship Number one is obvious and quite funny that women act so offended by it. We men are driven by the wonderful desire to conquer... economically, tribally, and sexually. If you only want sex from her, then put the kibosh on relationship behaviors.  Be straightforward and candid while escalating, you'll

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Finding passion online is now culturally acceptable.  Some interesting numbers from the world of online dating: According to Hitwise, there are about 1,400 online dating sites in North America. Roughly 40 million American singles use online dating and social networking sites to meet new people. It is predicted that Americans will spend $1.7 billion on dating services in 2013

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  I never took this too seriously in my younger years, because I thought women were a good source of advice about women.  I can't stress this enough:  men need advice from MEN about dating and relationships.  Most western women (U.S. and western Europe) and male "experts" will give you advice from a post 1960's, feminist perspective. Yes, that little movement really

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So many dating and lifestyle coaches blast you with the must-have dvd, cd, podcast, groundbreaking material... I get the emails of misleading or exaggerated claims.  So many lately, that my head is spinning.  I rank them right up there with penis enlargement ads. They taunt you with new information you must buy to stay relevant.  They often misread cause and effect.  Recently

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Swoon is a term used to express happiness or excitement, to be overwhelmed by joy or emotion toward something or someone. My good friend texts me yesterday... "I am at Barnes and Noble witnessing what apparently is an internet date."  He gives me a great play-by-play as he observes their interaction.  "The guy actually brought a rose!" "His cologne is awfully strong..." "

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A frame is a structural system that supports other components. Your mental/emotional/psychological frame supports all your social interaction skills.  If you have a strong frame you will have strong interactions.  Strengthen your frame and your skills will follow.  Strengthen your frame and others will be attracted to you. What can you do to strengthen your frame? Build

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Finding sex versus being social is the same difference as spending versus investing money. Let’s look at money for a minute… Mmmm… money. Spending money provides immediate gratification; it feels good to buy something. You finally fulfill the want or longing that has been in your gut. The desire is quenched. Let’s go shopping. Let’s spend some money and get some

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Well, I don't know if it was a good one or a bad dream... but after a sabbatical from blogging, I may have found my voice again.I'll be regularly recording my ruminations about men and women. I was inspired by the recent news of several engagements for marriage by people I know. Yikes, are they succumbing to social pressure or are they really ready for it?Wow, so much work and so little time...

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Fear of rejection is bad because of the REJECTION. No one likes it. Unfortunately, many guys think they need to develop thick skin. It's counter-productive to act outlandish or corner a woman until the point she rejects you. It's a fruitless activity that makes you think you are actually strengthening your skills. Think of rejection more as a virus that eats away at your inside instead

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Women like to return regularly to my house. I don’t have a big place, a hot tub, a pool or a plasma TV. But I make it a cool place to hang… it’s simple and any guy can do it.CleanEspecially the kitchen sink, kitchen floor, bathroom sinks, tub & toilets.Bleach is effective, inexpensive, and smells clean. Clean sends a good message.I don’t leave unfolded laundry in plain site.Clean sheets and my

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The law of supply and demand point out that scarcity can raise demand. Gold, oil, diamonds... If you make your self completely available to a woman, she can have you anytime SHE wants. How many times has a woman not been available when you had a free evening? Make yourself scarce to the girl. They call it playing hard to get. Too many guys jump at the chance to go on a

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If you talk to enough women, you will find the ones attracted to you.For you see, the ones attracted to you want to spend time with you. They make it easy. Many guys experience frustration because the object of their attention won’t reciprocate.She doesn’t return may callsShe doesn’t return my texts in a timely mannerShe is always too busy to get togetherWhat if you didn’t worry about any one

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Do you remember when Barney the Purple Dinosaur told you (or your kids) that those were the magic words? Well, ole Barney was right in teaching those manners to 5 years olds. However, those phrases are part of social transactions between people in our society. These words are simple building blocks of social calibration. Your whole outlook on life and influence on people can change by

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Once upon a time in America, when someone came home from work, the store, or from picking the kids up from school… they parked (the one car the family owned) in their driveway or carport. Got out of the car and said hello and had a brief conversation with their neighbors and then went inside. If the phone rang, they answered it, eager to speak with the caller. People belonged to civic

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What a woman can bring to the table: Nurture (physical affection, listening ear, words of encouragement) Sexual relationship (she enjoys it, she initiates it, she seeks to please you) Hospitality (cooking for you, has your favorite beverage, knows how to make people feel comfortable in your/her home) Companionship (she is interested in helping you achieve your goals in

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a·bun·dance [uh-buhn-duhns]–noun1. an extremely plentiful or oversufficient quantity or supplyAbundance mentality: there are plenty of women out there who are attracted to me.Some of the signs you have it:You interact with everyone from a non-needy mindset.You are a chill dude, who (acts like he) gets laid a lot.You don’t get reactive when a woman doesn't respond well.If a set goes bad, you don

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It's not my job/obligation/duty to feed or entertain a woman who I am interested in sexually. Buying meals/movies/drinks will not get you laid. Charm, charisma, and confidence will get you laid. I am interested in attracting and seducing her versus entertaining her.Example #1: I met a woman and spent $4.63 on coffee for both of us. That's it. I had sex with her on 5 different occasions.

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Women enjoy sex as much men. Chisel that into the granite between your ears.How does a guy maintain multiple friends with benefits?One word.... F-R-A-M-E."I like your company, you like mine. I enjoy having sex with you. We can hang out when both of our schedules allow."The tricky thing with FB's is that if you keep them long term they become a non-traditional girlfriend. I treat them nice but

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Just a couple random thoughts I had while contemplating recent interactions with women:- If you talk to enough women, you will find the ones attracted to you. Talk to every woman you find attractive.- Work twice as much on yourself as you do on your game. You will get more out of reading the books yourself than listening to a guru summarize it.- Read, travel, study, fine tune your hobbies...

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What would you attempt, if you knew you couldn't fail?Part of becoming an attractive man (a man who attracts hot women) is to become a man of substance. There's more to you than just smooth talk and a pretty face. There's more to you than the last woman you took to bed.Do you like photography? Hone your skills, become great at it.Do you like music? Learn how to play an instrument, I recommend

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Friday afternoon: I plan to meet a pretty woman for drinks. We're supposed to have coffee but she calls to change it to a bar/restaurant. Umm, ok. But I tell her I am not hungry and am not going to eat.I meet her there and she asks if I mind if she eats something. I tell her that I agreed to meet for coffee but I am not buying her food. "If you want to get some food and pay for it, feel free to

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The hotter you think she is, the more likely you will succumb.Before you think I am writing another sour note about women… consider the rising tide: Oprah, Dr. Phil, Ellen, Cosmo, Glamour, and countless others paint women out to be the victims.Before it’s a foregone conclusion that women are victims, let’s take a look at some of the games women play very well. Not all women play all the games

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Robert Redford as Roy Hobbs in The Natural had this exchange with his intriguing love interest:Iris: You know, I believe we have two lives. Roy: How... what do you mean? Iris: The life we learn with and the life we live with after that.I know that many men have had this experience post-divorce. We had a “life we learned with” and a “life we live afterwards.” It’s very similar to the lives that

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View his TV interview/attack session here“What’s my dating philosophy? "I was on the phone last night with two friends and we were discussing the dos and don’ts of dating in New York City. From that conversation, I can thread out a few general themes. Before we get there, though, let me say I have a dual aim when I spend time with a woman: to have fun and to maintain my integrity as a man.

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Fresh fish and house guests go bad in a few days, even in the best of conditions. But what about new dating relationships? Charlie Sheen once said, "You don't pay them for the sex, you pay them to leave"From my experience, the shelf life of new, exciting relationships is about 4 to 6 months. This occurs even when you are getting some strange on the side. Unless she is your super-duper ideal

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You think the guy in my last post is crazy?Heard this catchy tune on the radio... song by megastar Shania Twain.Country music is B-I-G in America. Crossover artist get played ad naseum.This is the kind of stuff that is programmed everyday into the minds of men & women:"Any Man of Mine"This is what a woman wants...Any man of mine better be proud of meEven when I'm ugly he still better love meAnd

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I didn't write this. Some anonymous guy in Denver with a keen sense of self penned this astute post on Craigslist:"I am a man in my 40s and dating. I was married and against my wishes the marriage ended. I loved my wife deeply, she decided she no longer loved me and she wasn't "happy". So, now I date. I didn't ask to be in my 40s and single, but reality being what it is I live with it.I have no

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We are fast approaching the end of the year. Very soon, 2007 will be in the history books. What did you accomplish this year? What goals got pushed aside? Are you healthier? Are you happier?Start thinking about 2008, you need to set aside some time next month to work on your goals. Break them down into categories: health (mental/spiritual & physical), financial, relationships (family &

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I was channel surfing and stopped on "The Girls Next Door", the show about the three hot rocket scientists who are Hugh Hefner's live-in girlfriends. (I watch it for the storyline...) In this episode, they are trying to find a girlfriend for Kendra's cousin or brother, I don't remember who he is... anyways, they invite him to a party at the mansion. The scene "successfully" culminated with

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I have heard the occasional comment from a guy who is not going out because he has limited funds. Whatever the reason: you are in college, business is slow, you got bills, etc. That should not stop you from going out and meeting women. Since you are a man and not a chump, you don't need to worry about dating. Places to meet women for free:mallsbookstoresdowntowncampusoutdoor mallsMeeting women

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Worst line ever for guys, and you’d better never let it leave your lips:Jerry Maguire (Tom Cruise) and Dorothy (Renee Zelwegger) watch the scene play out in the elevator between the deaf couple, he later repeats that sacrilegious line to her as his oath of love, “You complete me.” (Excuse me while I throw up.)When I was 16 years old, all I wanted was a girlfriend. A cute one. A girlfriend that

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Our society doesn't take too kindly to a guy having more than one girlfriend.Think of all the words that have negative connotations: player, womanizer, Casanova, Don Juan, philanderer, lady's man, wolf... just to name a few. It's much more culturally acceptable in other parts of the world. It's even in the bible. (RHM, you can't say that!) Many early jewish patriarchs had multiple

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I recommend the following book about personal change. I’ve heard this guy speak, without a doubt, the most articulate person I have ever seen in person. Many of us on the had to change (and are in the process of changing) our mindset about women. His material has stood the test of time, and he has been doing this for many, many years.What To Say When You Talk To Yourself by Dr. Shad

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Last week, a brazilian woman told me that one big difference, between American men and men in her country, is that American men apologize too much. What? Seems like we have been trained to be too polite. Cutting in line, bumping someone in a crowd, or some perceived rudeness must be followed by remorse. Lots of times we apologize for just being men. Being aggressive, being bold, acting wild,

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Exhibit A: Last weekend, I had a date set up with a woman. I called her the day of the date to confirm and let her know the agenda. She stalled and balked, she was fishing for a different activity. I had to finish some business and when she waited too long to call me back, I made plans with a buddy, and left her hanging. It's been about four days, and I still haven't called her. Am I

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I will admit that in my weaker moments I have watched a chick flick. Hiss booo. However, one of my favorite movie lines comes from “As Good as It Gets.” Jack Nicholson, as novelist Melvin Udell, has this classic exchange with his publisher’s receptionist:Receptionist: (fawning over Melvin) "How do you write women so well?Melvin: "I think of a man and take away reason and accountability.”

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It’s over. The fat lady has sung. Elvis has left the building. The idea of traditional dating doesn’t appeal to me anymore. Does it appeal to you? If it does, you should have your head examined.It goes something like this:Boy meets girl Boy likes girlBoy asks girl to _________Boy drives to pick up girlBoy pays for ___________Boy drives girl homeBoy gets a kiss on the cheek and a hug for

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An interesting thing happened in America after World War II. Women stayed in the workforce. Closets in houses grew in size and number. Garages became standard and then we needed two or three bays. One television wasn’t enough. Divorce skyrocketed. Each kid got his or her own room. Entertainment centers replaced bookshelves. Kitchens got bigger and families cooked less. Five years made a

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I am smart.I create wealth.I am strong and fast.I lead, hunt, and protect.I can be by myself and happy.I am not ruled by my emotions.It's my frame... welcome to it.You’re hot. So what? I'm the prize.RHM

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I sought my soul,but my soul I could not see.I sought my God,but my God eluded me.I sought my brother,and I found all three.-AnonymousRHM

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I get a phone call from a woman I’ve known for six months. I find her very attractive based on looks, creativity, and poise. Will I come meet her before she moves to another state? Sure… I’ll be there in 30 minutes after I finish my beer and wings. I am thinking “game on.” I turned her down last week, she really wants me now.Over drinks with her and a female friend, she explains that she is

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Here’s the latest confirmation…So I am out last night at a social happy hour geared toward professionals at an upscale location. I strike up a conversation with a group of five women, all of whom happen to be married. It's interesting that women who have been married more than a few years seem quite eager to converse with men other than their husbands. They were all attractive, in shape, and

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A wise business philosopher, Jim Rohn once said, “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person you become.” Part of that success is p-e-o-p-l-e. I want to attract "good people" into my life. What kind of people do you attract? How does one become MORE attractive?How many books have you read in the last month?Do you take time to think about your existence and the meaning of

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Father’s DayCall your Dad on Sunday or go see him, there’s a few things you could tell him:Thank him for putting up with you during the teenage yearsThank him for letting you live at home entirely too longThank him for putting food on the table when you were a kidThank him for being a good example (I didn’t say perfect)Thank him for not killing you when you fought with your siblingsThank him for

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If your picture of the human existence only comes from America, you need to see the world live and in-person. Here's some benefits of seeing the third world:You will more greatly appreciate our level of prosperity in AmericaYou will be thankful for American infrastructuresYou will be challenged to learn another languageYou will see that machismo is expected of menYou will see how well women can

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Do men really fear growing old and being alone? Is marriage the cure for loneliness?I have been in a long term marriage.I have been devout.I have children / I am an active father.I have gone through a divorce.I have made lots of money (and lost lots of money).I've spent money on houses, cars, vacations.I have been ______ (aren't many left except gay, leaving that for someone else)...Here's what

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Hallelujah!!!Dominicanas, Boriquenas, Mexicanas, Brasileras, Venezolanas, Argentinas, . Chilenas, Ecuadorans, Ticas, Nicas, Panamanians, Colombianas, Peruanas, and more are... coming to America. Thery’re even being born here. But let’s hope that they keep the culture and don’t get gringa-sized.If you've ever had one or more (grinning) of these women, you know what I am talking about. If you've

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Why the dinner date is such a bad idea:It sets the stage of you as her providerDo it once and you will be expected to do it againYou cannot jump her bones in a restaurantEating out is, generally, a waste of your moneyYou can eat healthier at homeYou will over-eat at the restaurantIt lacks so much creativity and portrays you as the average chumpIf she doesn’t “put out” later, you blew a wad of

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In the movie Bull Durham, Kevin Costner as Crash Davis tells the leading lady what he believes in:“Well, I believe in the soul, the cock, the pussy, the small of a woman's back, the hanging curve ball, high fiber, good scotch, that the novels of Susan Sontag are self-indulgent, overrated crap. I believe Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone. I believe there ought to be a constitutional amendment

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"Warning Will Robinson, warning!"In the classic 1960’s television show, Lost in Space, a family of galactic travelers roams the cosmos. In the show, the robot had a protective role for the adolescent space pioneer, Will Robinson. With his incredible sensors, the robot would warn young Will of imminent danger… aliens, spacecraft, or impending harm."Warning, Will Robinson, warning!" Here are your

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I won't be the first in a long line of men who feel that western civilization has taken (is taking) something from men.But I will make a confession, I (we/many of us) have allowed western culture to take away our manhood. Our masculinity. Our maleness. Our cojones. Inch by inch, we've lost precious ground to the feminism that seeks to destroy our natural roles as leaders, hunters, and

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Bars Pubs Bookstores Cafes College campuses Business Mixers Social Happy Hours Nightclubs City parks Shopping malls Grocery stores Dating websites Mega churches Women are everywhere... all but one, involve getting off your ass and out the door. There's no roadblock you can't work through to have the relationships you want with women. If you are unsure of how or where to start, contact me

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I am a dating and lifestyle mentor with two decades of adult dating, marriage, interpersonal and business development experiences.   I have been through a marriage and have been through a divorce.  I've unlocked the secrets of getting the kind of relationship you want.  You don;t have to settle for second-best. Would you like to have lots of great options when it comes to women? Whether

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Where to find women to talk with: Bars Pubs Cafes College campuses Business Mixers Social Happy Hours Nightclubs City parks Shopping malls Grocery stores Dating websites Mega churches Women are everywhere... all but one, involve getting off your ass and out the door. There's no reason not to have the relationship you want with women. If you are unsure of how or where to start, contact me

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As in life, sports, business, sales, fitness, and health... it's the simple fundamentals that make all the difference. Many pickup "gurus"... guys who have never been married... guys that have sexed less than a dozen women... guys with very little long term relationship experience... want to make it complicated and charge you thousands of dollars for your routines and new age hocus-pocus.

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