Positive and Realisitc

We all know that tough life experiences can make us bitter or better.  I've had my share of mistakes with women and been burned, but I also recognize the great things about a woman that I enjoy:

soft skin
pretty eyes
nice legs
warm breasts
a woman's intuition
her nurturing nature
soft voice
the touch of her hand
beautiful hair
her want for a strong man
the way her body moves when dancing


With these great things in mind, I still don't want to chase to get what I enjoy.  Because I know that no matter how sweet she may seem, she generally wants us to pursue.  Some dating coaches want you to fantasize a new reality for yourself where "hot women want to sleep with you wherever you go."  That might sell some sizzle, but the steak is still in the basics.


Talk to enough women to find the ones attracted to you.  Learn how to better recognize attraction and recognize when she's just being socially courteous.  Make yourself accessible if she really wants to get together with you.  Follow up in a high value, social leader way.  Learn how to say to yourself, "Next."  Build a high value social life.


Most normal guys don't want to dress like Elton John and run into colleagues, old friends, or social circle members.  "Nice feather boa and eyeliner, Smith."  Most guys starting out cannot afford or have enough wingmen to put together a VIP champagne party every weekend.

Keep a positive attitude about where you are going, but be realistic about your current station and progress.  The confidence comes with your mastery of the basics.  The attraction comes from your confidence.  You can make the change, it's a journey.


RHM

Tell me we're not living in a feminized culture...

What a great ad from the past....

Blow in her face and she'll follow you anywhere.  As a friend of mine says, that's your lock-in prop.  You might want to let her know it's coming...


RHM

Super secret formula?

There is no super secret formula for seduction.

Find the women who are attracted to you and escalate the physical. 


In case you missed this day in school:  Women are generally attracted to the guys they find good-looking and cool.  There are women who run the gamut from homely to hot, so there are specific women who find YOU attractive.  A few women find Woody Allen attractive, most women find George Clooney very attractive.

If you want to attract more and hotter women, then you might want to become a more physically attractive guy:

• Lose some weight 
• Build some muscles
• Change your wardrobe
• Get a better hairstyle
• Take care of that breath

If you want to attract more and hotter women, then you might want to become a more socially cool guy:

• Become a good conversationalist
• Learn to dance sexy
• Develop interesting hobbies
• Plan and execute social gatherings
• Build a circle of cool friends

While you are improving yourself, and always, talk to enough women so that you find the percentage of women attracted to you.  You may only attract 5 out of 100 women.  Out of those five, maybe only one is ready, willing, and able to spend some alone time with you.  You'll need to improve your attractiveness while meeting another 100 women.

Work on the above things and you may find that 10 out of 100 women are attracted to you.  Out of those ten women; three are  ready, willing, and able to jump your bones.  Improve your odds by working on yourself instead of searching for some secret seduction technique.


Continue to talk to as many women possible and you will find the ones attracted to you.


Find the women who are attracted to you and escalate the physical.


Stay tuned for escalating the physical...



RHM